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Why Is Everyone So Mad That I Want a Luxury 40th Birthday?
Can we talk about the absolute comedy show that is internet outrage? I recently dropped a GoFundMe link to raise forty thousand dollars for an epic world tour to celebrate my upcoming fortieth birthday. Did I hold anyone hostage? No. Did I force a single person to open their wallet? Absolutely not. I just left the link there and said, hey, if you want to chip in and be part of the celebration, do your thing. Cue the pearl clutching and the absolute digital riots in my comment

Candy Cruz
Aug 283 min read


When Your "Friend" is a Predator: The Truth About Smart-Glasses & Violation.
So, I have a "friend", or at least someone I thought was my "friend" for over ten years, and I’m sitting here writing this because it’s been a week and I can’t stop thinking about all the violations. I am just so disgusted, hurt, and completely yucked out by everything. I’m honestly putting this out here because I need to vent, but I also know so many women can relate to how exhausting it is to let your guard down, try to be vulnerable, and trust a man you call your brother,

Candy Cruz
Aug 232 min read


Regular and STILL Winning 🏆
Let me say this in the simplest way possible. I am not famous. I am not an heiress. I am not a celebrity’s daughter. I do not have a rich boyfriend. I do not have a famous baby father. I have never been on television. I am a regular woman who did well. And that bothers people. Yall out here looking for a secret trust fund I must have or some dramatic backstory to explain my lifestyle because if I’m just "regular," then you have to admit we started at the same place and that h

Candy Cruz
May 53 min read
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