Why Negativity Doesn’t Touch Me ☺️

Some people want to see me break so bad… meanwhile my bills are on autopay, my wine is chilled, and my dessert is being served at 30,000 feet.

Let’s just be honest, I get a lot of negative comments.

Some of them are so mean that to the average person, they might cut deep. People pick apart my looks, my personality, my lifestyle… the same tired talking points over and over.

I’ve even had someone I considered a friend once tell me, “I could never be you because I couldn’t take all the backlash you get.”

She thought she was being real. I thought she was being shady.

Either way, it didn’t land the way she probably hoped.

Because here’s the thing ☺️ I’m used to it. I’m also good with me. And when you genuinely like yourself and genuinely enjoy your life, negativity just… bounces off.

Even “Friends” Can Be Haters

That friend…… we’ll just call her M 😌 had a pattern of little jabs.

Like the time we were in Africa. Everyone was already in the van, and I was the last one getting in, carrying a couple of bags. I asked her to hold one for two seconds while I climbed in. Instead of just helping, she went on a whole rant about “I’m not your slave” and “You think people are supposed to take care of you because you’re pretty.”

It was weird. And unnecessary AF.

Or the time she came over and made a whole speech about how people shouldn’t say they’re “OCD” unless they’re medically diagnosed, right in my living room, knowing she’s joked about me being “OCD” before, and knowing I keep my home spotless. It wasn’t a conversation. It was a dig.

These weren’t one-off moments. They were little cracks in the friendship that eventually showed me she was never really for me.

Why It Doesn’t Bother Me

I don’t let things like that ruin my day or my peace.

When you’re attractive, educated, and financially stable, people are going to project. They’re going to look for ways to knock you down, because they feel smaller next to you.

But here’s my secret:

• The love I get is louder than the hate 🥰

• The people rooting for me, including me, will always drown out the noise ‼️

• And I’m not here to convince anyone who’s determined not to like me 💅🏽

And Let’s Be Clear, I Have Every Reason to Love My Life

I’m not just “happy” with my life… I am literally in love with my life 😍

I live good.

I eat good.

I fuck good.

I sleep good.

I travel when I want.

My credit is amazing.

I look good, naturally and on purpose.

I’m flexible as hell.

I’m smart as hell.

I write well.

I’m a whole entrepreneur.

I’m great at business.

I’m a good dog mom.

I keep my home clean, my body clean, my energy clean.

I keep myself healthy.

I’m creative, I’m funny, and I’m that woman in any room I walk into.

Yea 😌 I’m really bragging.

And why shouldn’t I? TF

I’ve worked for every bit of it.

I got every reason to feel like I’m that bitch.

So, yea… I could care less about the hate… life is great 🤸🏽‍♂️