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I had a dream that made me check myself 🫣
A few nights ago, I had a dream that honestly embarrassed me. In the dream, a woman called me broke. And instead of just looking at her like she lost her mind… I started arguing. “I’m not broke. I got this. I got that.” Going on and on, trying to prove a point. And then it got worse. I started doing the absolute most. Acting out of character. Loud. Performative. The kind of energy I would never show in real life. When I woke up, I couldn’t shake it. Not because it happened… b

Candy Cruz
7 days ago3 min read


Pretty, Paid and misunderstood: Why I don’t trust men who say "women have it easy"
Men who constantly say “women have it easy” don’t annoy me. They scare me. Because that mindset doesn’t come from strength. It comes from comparison. From resentment. From a quiet kind of jealousy, a lot of men don’t even realize they carry. And I pay attention to that. Because the way a man speaks about women tells me how he sees them. Not as partners. Not as equals. But as competition. And I don’t compete with men. I build. I earn. I maintain my life. I take care of myself

Candy Cruz
Mar 253 min read


I miss my dad 🥹
I lost my dad in 2020 during Covid. This is a real story about grief, complicated love, faith, and how losing him shaped the woman I am today.

Candy Cruz
Feb 165 min read
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